Community guidelines

Advice welcome and appreciated but be kind. Unkind comments or posts will be deleted.

Be kind

People post here at low moments. Answer the way you would want to be answered on your worst week.

Advice is welcome, judgement is not

Share what worked for you. Avoid telling someone what they should have done differently.

Protect anonymity — yours and everyone else's

Do not post identifying details about yourself, a colleague, or an employer.

Keep it to the point

Posts and comments are limited to 500 words so that everyone gets read.

Posts and comments that break these rules will be removed by a moderator.